If there’s one thing that I know about being successful with women it’s this, you’ll never be successful until you learn how to talk to girls. You see so many guys focus on things that really don’t matter that much like having really cool clothes or going to the gym and building really big impressive muscles. While these things might seem like they would matter a lot to women and help you to get a girlfriend the truth is that the matter only a tiny fraction as much as conversational skills do. Looking good helps you get your foot in the door no doubt about it, but once a girls has given you her attention, you need to be able to keep the conversation going so that she will want to keep talking to you and feeling attraction for you. These sorts of conversational skills take a while to fully develop, but the time that you put into improving this part of your personality is time well spent.